April 03, 2020
Squirting is something that can look pretty hot in porn. But, is it something that the average couple can accomplish in their bedroom?
Scientists debate whether squirting is real or not while many online testimonies praise squirting for revamping sex lives. So, is it possible to learn how to squirt during sex?
Keep reading to learn more about squirting, what science has to say about it, and tips and toys to help you achieve an extra-wet orgasm at home.
First things first, what is squirting? While there's some debate on which liquids come out when a woman squirts, the consensus is that squirting refers to fluids expelled from a woman's urethra when she orgasms.
Typically, the urethra is the tube used to move urine out of your body. However, surrounding the urethra is the female-equivalent of a prostate called the Skene's glands. These glands provide additional openings that release female ejaculate instead.
Unlike urine, which is typically clear or yellow, female ejaculate is a milky white color with a thicker consistency.
When squirting, some women may release just a few drops, while others can experience a gushing sensation.
Squirting is real in the sense that, when stimulated correctly, at least some women can release liquids like men during their orgasm. However, by "real," you're likely asking "is squirting just peeing on your partner?"
The debate is out on whether squirting is really female ejaculate or just a symptom of urinary incontinence, the loss of bladder control.
Some scientists argue that urine makes up most of the released liquids, while others claim it really is female ejaculate shooting out from the Skene's glands, similar to male ejaculation.
Those in favor of the urinary incontinence argument point to the presence of bladder fluids like urea and creatinine, while the latter point out the presence of enzymes similar to male prostate fluids.
On the other hand, the squirting you see in porn isn't always real. While a steady stream during an orgasm sounds like a sexy and fulfilling experience for you and your partner, it may not be attainable. Porn stars often fake extreme squirting orgasms by using other liquids or expelling urine to create the effect on set.
Scientists also debate whether squirting is something every woman can do with a little practice or a secret skill of the special few. This is because they are unsure if all women have Skene's glands.
To test their theories and see where you fit in, you'll need to know where to start. Check out the steps below to learn how to squirt during sex or self-play.
When first attempting to squirt, the familiar feeling of having to pee will likely arise. While urine can cause this sensation as it rises through the urethra, the Skene's glands located at the end of the urethra also fire sensations when the G-spot is stimulated.
Emptying your bladder before you begin attempting to squirt will help you remain confident that the feeling you're experiencing is budding female ejaculate not urine.
While it may seem counterintuitive, it's best to relax your body before you start the squirting process. Tensing up and cluttering your mind with pressure to make it happen, will only make things more difficult.
Whether you're with a partner or not, set the mood with candles, music or a sexy video to help you relax and get turned on and stimulated comfortably.
It's also a good idea to put down towels over your sheets beforehand, so things can get as wet and messy as you want.
Whether you're playing alone or with a partner, move the stimulation to your clitoris first. This will help prepare your G-spot for more intense pressure and stimulation, which is needed to squirt.
Some women may find it helpful to continue clitoris stimulation throughout the squirting process, while others will find it most useful just to kick things off before switching to G-spot stimulation.
If you already know where your G-spot is, you can treat this step as optional and skip to step five. However, if you're still unsure where your G-spot is located, it's important to learn. After all, stimulating the G-spot is essential to squirting.
Scientists debate exactly what the G-spot is. However, it's important to note that they believe it isn't one specific part of your anatomy. Some researchers argue the female G-spot is an area of urethral tissue that swells with blood when a woman is turned on.
On the other hand, others claim the G-spot is more of a root region for your clitoris on the front wall of your vagina. While we think of the clitoris as more of a pleasure button, some studies promote that it has two four inch roots that experience stimulation and intense sensations.
To locate this G-spot area, massage the opening of your vagina and then insert a finger or two. Reaching upward towards your stomach and moving your fingers in a come-hither motion will help you find it.
You'll know you have the right area because it will feel slightly more rough or rigid and provide more pleasure.
Now that you've located your G-spot, it's on to the more fun stuff. To start squirting, lay on your back comfortably while your partner inserts their fingers and moves them in a come-hither motion to focus the pleasure to your G-spot.
However, note that the proper fingering methods needed to make a woman squirt are more intense than your average petting and playing session.
This is going to require vigorous hand movements on your partner's part and generous amounts of lubricant before and during to avoid pain or injury. This is especially important if you switch to bigger objects like dildos, vibrators or your partner's penis instead of fingers.
While you can also try to squirt by inserting your partner's penis, it is often more difficult to properly curve and reach the G-spot. While this can be better achieved from behind, this may also stall the process.
After all, many women find it necessary to remove G-spot stimulation during the final few seconds and focus vigorous stimulation back to the clitoris. Having to pull out and rearrange is often more time-consuming than using fingers for the task.
However, when you are practicing to squirt on your own, using your fingers is often not enough pressure.
Performing a come-hither motion on yourself puts your hand in an awkward position. Instead, using a toy designed for G-spot stimulation helps to reach your desired hot spots with the right pressure more easily.
Like we mentioned above, that urge to pee you feel when you're on the verge of squirting may really be your Skene's glands firing and ejaculate rising.
Remember that you emptied your bladder before you started and keep going with the targeted pressure.
If you or your partner let up, you may stall or stop squirting. Fight through that feeling and release both your screams and a squirting orgasm.
You just learned that the moments leading up to squirting orgasms often cause a urination sensation. However, the actual moment you squirt is less similar to how you feel when you pee.
Instead of releasing in a stream, female ejaculation squirts out and syncs up with the pulse of your orgasms.
Yes, the squirting fluids released are typically warm like urine, which may make your fear you wet the bed.
However, you can notice the difference because female ejaculation is thicker than urine. In addition, the amount released is usually less than what comes out when you pee.
Some women describe female ejaculation as a forceful release, while others say they didn't know it actually happened until their partner confirmed it and they saw a wet spot on the bed.
Generally, most women describe the feeling as a more intense orgasm or climax than usual.
Female ejaculation is typically a milky white color with a thick, sticky consistency. However, in some cases it can appear more clear and watery.
Scientists that argue its connection to urinary incontinence also report an occasional slight yellow tinge.
When a woman ejaculates, the liquids released generally resemble a clogged hose sputtering water, rather than maintaining a free-flowing stream.
This may be barely enough to fill a spoon in some cases or enough to fill a cup in others.
When you're asking does female ejaculation smell like urine, the answer is maybe.
Located in the urethra and possibly dispelling some urine with the ejaculation, it can carry the smell.
However, other firsthand reports online argue that female ejaculation smells and tastes nothing like urine, describing it as a sweet or odorless liquid.
It's important to remember to be patient with yourself and your partner. While squirting comes naturally for some, it may be more difficult and time-consuming for others.
Go into the process with an open, relaxed mind. Focus on having fun rather than achieving an orgasm or squirting. Keeping the pressure out of your mind and on to your clitoris and G-spot will help you get there.
In addition, practicing Kegel exercises beforehand will help you strengthen your pelvic floor muscles, which work to control fluid-flow in the urethra. This gives you a better chance at squirting success.
With the steps above and these final tips in mind, hopefully squirting will become less of a far-off fantasy and more of a reality in your bedroom.
Good Luck! 🙂
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